So many, too many things are in vain, everything from real accomplishments too genuine feelings … it has to have a goal, a finish line something with a purpose, not an end that’s just an end, but something to hold on too, something that stays, if at all possible something that will last forever (at least in this pitiful existence!) Otherwise it remains a painful memory in the back of the head, coming out every now and then just to wear you down with a pointing finger whispering -remember your mistakes? Nevertheless, decisions are made, and whatever ditch one has plunged into, people will constantly learn from the experience, and move forward, advance … what other alternative do we have.